Therapy for Adults Who Have Experienced Childhood Abuse and Neglect in Denver
Compassionate, trauma-informed therapy for adults healing from childhood wounds
Do you feel stuck in old patterns, no matter what you do?
You might be feeling:
Overwhelmed by anxiety, irritability, or sadness
Disconnected from loved ones or isolated socially
Stuck in patterns of self-blame or guilt
Haunted by memories you can’t shake, or trying to avoid them
Even if your early years weren’t overtly traumatic, abuse and neglect can show up in subtle ways. Emotional neglect, inconsistent caregiving, or high expectations without support can leave long-lasting effects.
Maybe you’ve read all the self-help books, practiced mindfulness, or tried to journal your way out of it, but something still feels off. The triggers, the shutdowns, the self-doubt, they keep showing up.
You might notice yourself pulling away from people you care about—or clinging tightly, unsure if they’ll stay. Maybe your nervous system is always on edge. Or you feel numb, detached, like you’re watching your life from the outside.
Relationships feel unpredictable or hard to trust
It’s difficult to feel safe or settled in your own body
You tend to power through… until you suddenly can’t anymore
Whatever you’re experiencing, it’s affecting every part of your life:
Trauma therapy can help you come home to yourself.
It may feel impossible now, but you can feel safe again.
You can trust yourself.
You can move through life feeling grounded and connected.
Trauma therapy helps you…
Feel safer and more secure in yourself and your relationships
Understand the patterns that have shaped your life
Learn coping tools to manage anxiety, flashbacks, and other trauma symptoms
This therapy helps you:
Identify the root causes of the pain you’re experiencing
Learn practical tools to regulate emotions and manage triggers
Build healthy, trusting relationships with yourself and others
I guide each client through a tailored, compassionate approach, combining trauma-informed therapy, parts work, somatic interventions, and cognitive-behavioral strategies. My approach comes from a place of safety and hope, helping clients understand that they are not the problem—the experiences they endured shaped patterns that can be healed.
The anxiety, flashbacks, mistrust, and self-doubt you’re experiencing don’t have to be your story.
It’s time to feel grounded, safe, and capable of connecting with yourself and others.
Frequently Asked Questions
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Absolutely. Abuse and neglect don’t always look dramatic or obvious. Emotional neglect, high-pressure environments, or subtle forms of criticism can create lasting trauma. Even with a generally happy childhood, it’s possible to experience symptoms such as anxiety, depression, flashbacks, or difficulty trusting others.
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Trauma therapy helps your brain, body, and nervous system remember: you’re safe now. You don’t have to revisit every painful detail to heal. Using methods like somatic therapy and parts work, we process trauma gently, release survival patterns, and rebuild trust in yourself — at a pace that feels right for you.
If talking about the trauma feels overwhelming, you can still heal without sharing the story. You stay fully in control. Your story is yours to keep — always.
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If you often feel stuck in survival mode — like you’re overthinking, shutting down, numbing out, or having trouble feeling safe in your relationships — your nervous system is signaling that it needs support.
You don’t need a formal diagnosis or a specific “big enough” trauma to benefit from therapy. If something hurt you and it’s still affecting your life, that’s more than enough reason to seek healing.
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PTSD can show up in many different ways, and you might notice some symptoms more than others. Common signs include:
Intrusive thoughts: Distressing memories or images that keep coming back.
Flashbacks: Feeling like you’re reliving the traumatic event.
Avoidance: Steering clear of people, places, or situations that remind you of the trauma.
Mood changes: Feeling numb, detached, or losing interest in things you used to enjoy.
Guilt or self-blame: Frequently feeling like it’s your fault.
Difficulty concentrating: Struggling to focus on work, conversations, or daily tasks.
Irritability or anger: Outbursts that feel bigger than the situation.
Hypervigilance: Always on edge, scanning for danger.
Exaggerated startle response: Jumping or feeling startled easily.
Sleep difficulties: Trouble falling asleep, staying asleep, or experiencing nightmares.
Physical symptoms: Headaches, stomach aches, or chest tension.
Emotional numbing: Feeling disconnected from your emotions or others.
Trust issues: Struggling to feel safe with people.
Hopelessness or helplessness: Feeling like things will never get better.
Memory gaps: Difficulty remembering parts of the traumatic event.
Excessive worry about the future: Feeling anxious about what’s ahead.
Substance use: Relying on alcohol or drugs to cope with difficult emotions.
Everyone experiences PTSD differently. If you notice these symptoms in your life, seeking support can help you understand and manage them in a safe, guided way.
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There’s no one-size-fits-all answer — and there shouldn’t be.
With Self-Aligned Therapy, we work together to create a plan tailored specifically to what your nervous system and whole self need. This often includes a blend of approaches like:
Body-centered somatic therapy to help regulate and release trauma held in the body
Cognitive strategies to manage anxiety, self-doubt, and overwhelming thoughts
Relational healing to rebuild trust and connection in yourself and others
Parts work and inner child healing to nurture and integrate the wounded parts of yourself
This isn’t a textbook approach. It’s trauma-informed, flexible, and deeply personal — designed to support your healing in the real world.
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That’s exactly why I offer a free consultation. It’s a chance for us to talk about what you’re carrying, what you hope to find in therapy, and whether this feels like a safe, trusting space for you.
If it doesn’t feel like the right fit, I’ll gladly help you find a therapist who better meets your needs. No pressure — just honest, real connection.
You don’t have to carry this alone.
Chronic anxiety, disconnection, or overwhelm don’t have to be your story.
I can help you get to a place of clarity, calm, and connection.